Posted on 2014.10.31
The Internet is flowing with opinions on Jian Ghomeshi and his lurid affairs with women that have been reported as violent and unwanted. What started off on Monday as a typical He Said, She Said has now turned into He Said, She Said, She Said, She Said, She Said, She Said, She Said, She Said and She Said with new victims coming forward daily. Victim blaming/shaming is at the root of the this celebrity scandal but there is also the underlying current of the story – sex, kink and consent. Below is a letter from one of our beloved clients with his opinion on Jian Ghomeshi and sex scandal.
A letter from our client
The drama of Jian Ghomeshi is unfolding by the hour. In the first few days of his firing, Ghomeshi came back strong with a 50 million dollar liable against CBC. Less than a few days later, stories surfaced of his abusive sexual appetite. One shocking story of a woman being assaulted rocked the radio waves.
Did Ghomeshi do these things? I don’t know, and it’s not my business to speculate. However, I will comment on one thing that’s clear and even admissible by Ghomeshi: he has an intense sexual appetite, one that’s far past into the borders of fetish-land.
Assuming he’s innocent, and these new allegations are false, what doesn’t change is that this drama has affected his public persona and career negatively. Huff post published an article stating that Ghomeshi is averaging a loss of 504 Facebook likes per hour.
My wife reminds me: Get an escort.
As a public figure, my wife reminds me the dangers of secrets, sexual promiscuity and affairs.
“Get an escort, baby.” My wife and I have a very honest relationship, and while she feels no desire for external sexual adventures, she knows that I enjoy and sometimes need it. In our first years of marriage, it was never something discussed. But after sometime, she brought it up, and made me very comfortable about the idea of paying a professional for sex.
And though at first I felt guilty about the idea, I do indulge in extra-marital adventures from time to time; always with the permission and encouragement of my wife.
I’m hoping that by writing this, it encourages other public figures to think more responsibly about their sexual appetite, and get professional help. In my case, the professional help was and continues to be Cupids Escorts.
Back to Jian Ghomeshi and public figures
Let me make myself very clear: I’m not a Ghomeshi supporter nor am I claiming he’s innocent. By the sounds of the surfacing allegations, it’s highly unlikely that he is.
What I am saying is that it’s too common of a story, that of a public figure’s image being shattered by a sex scandal. As my beautiful and loving wife says,
On behalf of my wife and I, thank you Jillian.
– A grateful client